Sexual Advice, Heighten His Orgasm. Adult Oral Sex Tip.   Advice on giving him great oral sex he will not forget.   Part 3 - Your enjoyment of giving him great head.

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LESSON SIX  -Heighten his Orgasm!

Let now heighten his orgasm even more with a refinement of your skills. . Place your thumb at the very base of the penis.  What you are going to do is to block the tube through which the cum spurts, the semen cannot escape even though he is spasming and going through the reflex action of ejaculating semen. If at the same time you suck him with everything you have directly on the head of his cock.  By doing both you can delay his orgasm for several long moments and exciting seconds. When you finally allow the cum to spurt it will last much longer and be just as intense as a result.  keeping the man on the edge can add to his orgasm.  Just keep your man on the edge once and you will see how hard he will cum and you will love having the power to do it. When I make a man cum I love to  heighten his Orgasm.

What I have found if you delay the him coming for only a few short moments you will be surprised by the intensity of his cum.  These techniques are the basis on a large number of men I have pleased by oral sex from adult friend finders. 

After you have mastered the above you are ready for much more. You are become an expert in giving a BJ.  When you have reached this point, you are ready for the more  advanced techniques and great pleasure for your man. Also if you have more than one man to please you will learn even more.  That is one advantage of me being a part time swinger.  So why do you also do some self discovery. Find out what works for you and for your sexual partners and make your oral skills giving BJ as individual as your fingerprint. After all, you want your man to pick you out in the dark among 20 other  hot women don't you want your man be able to pick you out as the best..  I bet most men could pick me out by the way I'm pleasing them. Giving a man oral sex is a great, by when done right he will  want you badly over and over again.  

LESSON SEVEN - You don't have to gag having oral sex with your guy.

For some gagging came be a problem.  For me the first thing I encountered when I  started giving bj's was the gag reflex. Most men like as much of there shaft in your mouth as possible. Some will even want to force their shaft down your throat as far as they can get it. Just about all of the men when they get close to coming will push you head down so you will take them deep.  Now let look at oral sex.  Consider average length of your oral cavity is three to four inches while the average white shaft is between five and a half inches to six and a half inches. 70% of are within this range. Thus getting all of it in your mouth is impossible 

But there are other ways.  You can master the necessary technique to fix most shaft deep into your mouth.  What you need to do is to take the shaft into your mouth and down your throat.  The biggest obstacle to taking all of his cock down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of almost eighty degrees behind your tongue.  This then lead down your throat.  The first thing to do is get the hard on  past that angle. In order to use this method get in a position where you can turn your head in such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head is near the edge with your sexy body sprawled across the bed, this will  lilt you had back sharply. This will align your mouth and throat  in such a way that insertion of his dick can be made very easy.  In fact it is common his pubic hair is pressing you hot lips.  Of course you don't have to take it this deep. Some women don't like the taste of the seamen and if he is coming you still can feel it but back that far there is hardly and taste. As for myself I love the taste of a man juices.

LESSON EIGHT  How deep is deep

If you  maintain this relaxation as he goes deep into your throat then you can take any length of a dick into your mouth.  It is a big turn on for a guy if you let him put his cock down your throat and hold it still for a few seconds at first. The more you do it the better it feels. You can now give your partner greater stimulation than simply keeping your mouth tightly closed around his throbbing cock.  Hopefully you are getting really wet down below by now.  If you are able try to stimulate his shaft  with your tongue, go for it! If you are letting him do it your guy  is in full control. He must initiate and maintain all the motion and him being in control of going so deep will knock his balls off so to speak.  This is the only time giving BJ's in which you relinquish your control of the situation to your sexual partner.  Now your partner begins an in and out movement that is just like going all the way but this time it is your mouth. He should start slowly, especially if this is a completely new experience for the two of you. A lot of women has taken a man into their mouth but not to many deep down their throat.  Oral sex for a man is one of the great sexual  pleasures in his life.  One other word of caution he will love the feeling of this.

Now he has couple option where to cum.  At that spectacular moment he will be able for the first time to thrust his cock all the way inside your mouth opening.  Let him pick where to come.  Most men enjoy seeing and feeling his sperm unloading inside your mouth.  They get off big time doing this.  But if the cum deep you will not be faced with the problem of swallowing his cum.  Without a condom on  his sperms is going to shoot or flow directly into your stomach.

Will everyone be able to do "deep throat" technique?  Well maybe not every but if you try hard enough you will be on your way of becoming his best sexual partner ever.  If you are new to this tell your partner you are.  Men always like thinking they are the first and if it is the truth so be it.  Now if the man's shaft is thick, which is a little larger that the inside of a toilet paper roll it will be more difficult for you to deep throat him. Is if you man is much thicker than average just focus on the head of this dick until he is about to cum  then try to go as deep as you cam.   Many women can do this for a few seconds without any problem even with a thick dick.

LESSON NINE  -  Oral Sex is The Ultimate Gift When Done Right.

THE ULTIMATE:   Now here is what men desire the most from a blow job. I have give oral at least a 2000 times since I started and more than a 100 men.  Each man want the women to treat his dick like you just won a huge price.  They want to see YOUR passion and desire to please him.  They want you to go for it.   The ultimate blow job for a man is not just you sucking him off, but you falling in love with his dick for the time you are doing him. You are in position where he can see it.  Feel it and for you to taste it. When is is unloading he probably will not see to much.  Most men can't keep there eyes open when they are unloading their seed.  So Make sure he can see what you are doing to him after he cum!!! His cum filling your mouth or leaking our around the corner of your mouth.  Leave this cum on your face for a little longer.  If he is watching let about half of more of this cum flow back into his dick and then lick it up again and do it.  Then do down as deep as you can and let your lips suck of any remaining cum from his shaft.  

Then look directly into his eyes and say "how was that"?  or say. "Wow, that was great." At the same time having a huge satisfied smile on your face.  If you still have his seed on your mouth area or maybe on your chin,  use your finger and wipe it up and then suck it off your finger.  What a rush that will give him. For most men the sucking part is very exciting but the most stimulating part during and after he start to come. You treating his seed like a very most erotic and special gift in the world will blow his mind as much as you did to his dick.  Remember sex start and end in the mind. So more excitement and passion you put into the more you will enjoy it.

Lesson Nine was so important I will stress to you again what you really need to do to make this the ultimate climax and a blowjob he will remember.

As for me what I enjoy.  I enjoy how the man react to the entire experience. I enjoy feeling and if someone is taking a video of it, watching his cum running out around my your lips and slowing out of my mouth and down his still harden shaft.  If you are doing this, don't let it all out at once.  Take your time.  Keep sucking slowly! For the man what you do our he unloads is equally if not more important that what you did up to that point. For the next minute and no more than two you play with his cum with your tongue and lips.  Remember take your time.  Make sure he can look down and  see you enjoy what your effort resulted in.    He and you will be very happily surprised by the intensity he will experience by you doing this.   Lick up only a little of his seed cum each lick or suck.  You seeing his excitement should get you very wet and satisfied at the same time.  Tell him how much you enjoyed his cum and them lick up a little more.  He will feel like passing out that how intense it is. Keep licking until there is not one drop of cum left on his body!!!!  This  will be the part of blow job he will always remember and will always want to do over and over again.   What your man just experience is the ultimate of all blow jobs he or any man can have.   Men love watching cum and this is reason you will see the cum shoots on the prom movies.  If you have the desire you will get this one down pat and your man will never look at blow jobs in the same way again!  As for the cum, the semen/precum hardly taste much like anything.   As for the ejaculation it certainly can have it range of tastes with the man on a different day.  Soon you will learn think of it as either wild cherry or sour cherry.  Never taste is bad,  just different.   So enjoy, when you are not in the tasting   mood to give the ultimate,  just take his cock really deep into your throat and you hardly will taste at all.  But when you taste it you know you just gave him something to remember.  

LESSON TEN   The Family Jewels and More.

Let look at another portion of your partner's private parts.  To giving him the best you can offer it is important you don't forget them or ignored the pleasure he will get by you touching and licking them.  Of course I'm talking about the family jewels. Here are two small ball or nuts that you can use to enhance your partner's feelings more than any other outside of his head.  Many partners don't think of the balls as primary sexual objects but they are. Many men are extremely sensitive down there.  But as I pointed out they also can take a pounding during intercourse.  Also remember this is where the  pearls of delight are produce.  Think as his balls as the entire package. 

So let start this lesson. Begin by gently licking his balls with your tongue. It can be a little salty but so can his shaft.  As you lick his ball also touch his nipples with your fingers gradually increasing or decreasing the intensity as you gauge how he is responding. You may want to gently caress his the head of this dick with with your hand while you are bathing his now wet balls with your tongue.

Remember going to hard at first can make bring on  pain and he will go soft. After a minute or two of bathing his balls you can  take both his balls in your mouth.  Again do it where he can open his eyes and see you enjoying is jewels.  If you partner shave down there then you won't have to worry about the tiny hairs on his testicles. If some get into your mouth remove then discreetly. However if you get his balls completely wet using your mouth and tongue  you will have pressed these hairs down along the surface of the sac. Thus less likely to get hair into your mouth. Remember the testicles is part of the foreplay leading up to the ultimate BJ. This foreplay is a very important part of getting your man hot. The sensations for your man is well worth it  when you take the time to enjoy his testicles!

LESSON ELEVEN  Anal Licking, also call rimming, Analingus or putting your Tongue into his or her ass.

At first I was not sure I was going to include this into my lesson plan.  But it is part of giving your man great oral sex.  First and foremost only do this if the guy has taken a bath and show not to long before your state.   If you are planning to do this I would suggest you take a show with him and wash him very well.  This also apply to men who want to do this to a woman.  As of the ladies if you are planning to have intercourse in the doggy position also make sure your down under is washed and sweet smelling.  Ok let get to the oral part now.

Anal licking as it call is putting ones tongue into the anal opening. However, most just call it ass licking, ass sucking or riming.  Before you even consider doing this again make certain that your partner is clean. Immediately out of the shower.  Baby wipes work good in addition to the shower.  If you are not completely sure you man don't have any type of hepatics then don't do it.  This is optional oral sex. I enjoy doing it with a safe and very clean sexual partner. 

 For this lesson place your partner on his back with his legs in the air and his knees close to his shoulders. This spreads open buttocks and allow easy access to his to his butthole. You are probably under the impression that actual penetration or deep penetration of his ass itself is necessary for your partner to receive the most satisfaction. Well that is not true. The major nerve endings around the anus itself. So the opening and the first inch inside is everything.  Licking around the area and just inside the ass is all that is needed.  This method hardly ever will make the man come by itself.  But what will is your jerking him off at the same time.  I have seen men shot their  load far using this method a couple of feet. Again not to partner will do this form of oral sex so your partner will remember how great you made it feel to come this way. 

Another way to do Anal Oral is to have the man get in doggy position with his ass pointing up into the air.  The advantage is that you don't have the bed in the way and you can put your tongue deeper in him.  But it is also hard to jerk him in this position.  but the man can jerk himself which is sexy while doing this and when he cum you will feel it around your tongue.   Anal Oral is a powerful stimulant and when combined with other activities such as vigorous hand stimulation on his throbbing shaft will cause a rapid and powerful cum!

LESSON TWELVE  Some finger fun to give him.

Most people use there fingers or a dildo. Some people enjoy fingering an ass with a   A plastic glove or two. I enjoy getting it with a smaller dildo that has a mini vibrator in it.  but for this lesson we will start with  your finger. As you are slowly giving head begin a slow playful search around his ass. Many men never had this done to them or are particularly sensitive in this area as we already know by the prior lesson.   If you have massage oil it makes entry much easier.  As your partner ass relaxes entry enter easy.  Go slowly exploring the velvety sensations along the sides of his opening. Go in and out slowly and let it build.   When your finger is inside his asshole completely you will be at the area of the prostate gland. When men have sex with men the prostate area is the most stimulating so is your finger.  Massage of this gland by your finger will produce some of the most delightful sensations for your partner.  You will see a lot more precum than norm.  If you are blowing him the do the up and down at the same speed as the in and out.   If he is jerking himself then do the same but also from time to time lick his balls.  When he state to cum push up very firmly with each shot of cum.  and don't stop for a good ten seconds or more after he unloaded. 

LESSON THIRTEEN  How to Vibrate a Penis.

A dildo mini-vibrator works exceptionally well for this type of stimulus. It is just the same length as the average finger and due to the vibrations that it produces the sensations against the prostate gland are enhanced many times more.  But a vibrator can make the man soft. Don't stop he will still  have an orgasms and many times it is a very powerful one.

Vibrator and the Penis  Many people have questioned me about a vibrator around the penis itself. Does it add to the sensation or not? First you need a electric vibrator what has a lower and more throbbing vibration. You need to find you man G stop and hole it there. If he had an erection he will probably lose it until right before he unload. If and I mean if he can take the 20-30 of being on the edge he will have one of this most forceful unloading of his seed you ever seem many of the times.  I have seen it where a man who normally just dribble with cum will shot his cum all the way to his face or ever over his head.  It is a site to watch if you guy is willing to take it.  Most men will want to cum since being on the edge is so hard to take.  if he just can't take the vibrator by itself I would suggest licking his shaft or balls.  This should put him over the edge.  I suggest as long as you have the vibrator handy anyway, try it around the penis.

LESSON FOURTEEN  - How to Give a A Ten Minutes or  Less BJ

There are times when you will want to get him off in a hurry! But because I want you to become an expert at all aspects of oral lovemaking I deliberately waited until now to introduce this technique. It differs from lesson four in that you are a more understanding of  how to give oral sex to your man.   Place your lips around the head of your partner's cock and twirl your lips wetly and gently around the coronal ridge at the back of the head of his penis. This does not require much cocksucking at all. It is also a great way to make a man with a large or very thick dick to come.

This work simply because this is the area that is most sensitive on your partner's dick.  It is not necessary to be a skillful you just do it and keep to the same sensitive area of this penis.  All that is necessary is for you to find the most sensitive area around the coronal area which is not hard to find.  By sucking on this area of his cock continuously you will produce a quick powerful cum. It is not necessary to bob your head up and down to get him off. One other use of this technique is to get him hard again after he has came.  this is a fast way to get his fire started for another round of pleasure. .

LESSON FIFTEEN 

Sixty nine is not always the perfect way to provide your partner oral satisfaction. Inadvertently one of you will "let up" your end of the cocksucking in order to experience the subtle pleasures the other partner is giving you. For this reason I have included it as the final lesson. Many people think that the deep throat technique is the ultimate pleasure you can give your partner. Actually I believe that sixty-nine is the ultimate pleasure. Done correctly and unselfishly when both of you are completely in tune with each others innermost desires, the sixty nine is the ultimate. But because of the problem mentioned earlier in this lesson, most people practice it too early and it becomes an intensely satisfying experience for one partner at the expense of the other. When you are completely on each other's wavelength you will discover that this is the most effective way of giving as well as receiving pleasure.

LESSON SIXTEEN

This is a open book lesson.  You become the teacher and pleasure with passion, desires and skill.   Find your guy and tell him this coming week you are going to suck him off each day of the week.  During that time period I want you to try what you have learn about giving head and to what work best for you and your man.  There is are many ways to please a man by giving head.  Send us your response to bjhead@adualtdatingsiteonline.com.  By doing so your lesson could be lesson 17 or more. I'm sure your partner would love to see the next lessons based on his pleasure. You don't get any money, or products and but you will get the satisfaction your method many be pleasing thousands of men soon.  So open your mouth, keep your guy enjoying you being his cocklover.  It's are great way to keep him desiring you too. .