Masturbation | Masturbation for Couples.

Masturbation plays a very important part to play in a couple's sex life. Some men and women can’t understand why their spouse still want to masturbate since they have someone. A major part of individual masturbation is that during masturbation the man or woman can fantasy about your partner doing this or that to them or maybe doing a threesome, group sex, bi or even gay sex. They can live it out in a safe way. After both couple have lived out a fantasy they might actual try it in real life. Depending on the couple it can be better than the fantasy or much worst since a fantasy your control and reality you can't. But couple fantasy is a good way to test out one of their fantasy before trying it for real. Now for couple masturbating

One thing masturbation does play a very important role is one of the partners have a higher sex drive than the other, which is very common. As a man age the women sex drive will surpass his at some point. Not that men are not still very interested in sex, they are but, they have less physical ability to have erection and to maintain it. Even with the best ED drugs out there it only work about 80% of the time after the man reached age sixty.

Erectile Dysfunction Drugs

[Researchers classified men who reported being “sometimes able” or “never able” to get and keep an erection as having erectile dysfunction.

The results showed 28.4% of men over 20 suffered from erectile dysfunction.

The problem was much more common in older men, with 70% of men 60 or over reporting erectile problems, compared with 5% of men 20 and 31% at age 40

According to some reports, over 50 million men in the U.S. may suffer from some measure of erectile dysfunction, a condition that can be detrimental to relationships and even mental health. Since the introduction of the first ED drug, Viagra, in 1999, ED drugs have grown to dominate the pharmaceutical market. By its manufacturer's own estimate, five hundred ED pills including Viagra pills are dispensed every minute in the U.S. That is 724,000 pills per day].

For couples or individuals who does not want to seek the sexual pleasure of someone other than their partner this is a great way to still enjoy sex.

1980's -1990's Couples Sex changed a lot.

Starting in the eighties couple started masturbating together more that is a fact. It went from, “not to often” or “never at all” on the survey “to doing it on regular bases”. These are couples who are masturbating at the same time, right next to each other. They are not petting each other for the most part.

There is no hardcore evidence why. But some of the top reason listed are. “Sex toy”, vibratory came in first for women followed by adult videos, dildo, watching their partner masturbate and other sexual toys.

For men they indicated watching their partner masturbate, adult videos, sex toys which included dildo. Men reported a very high satisfaction rate watching their partner masturbate.

One assumption we are likely to reach is couple like to watch their partner turned on by masturbation and then sharing their orgasms together. They still have the closeness of their partner, and are able to enjoy watching their partner having a great orgasms. There is also a direct corolation to couple masturbating together and their age. Very few couples in their 20’s did it together, less than 5% said on regular bases. They were still masturbating, but not together. By age 40 it was up to 40% and by age 60 it was the number one form of couples having sex together. Unfortunately, the sexual studies conducted back in the 40’s and 50’s never address couples watching each other masturbating.

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There was a lot of other words used for people describing talking about sexual subject with their partners during sex. Married couple talked the most about sex during sex. Couple having pillow talk based on a recently studies gave the following results. 23% of couples never talk during sex. They also was the same group that reported sex was less satisfied sexual than all the other groups at very poor to poor.

The largest group was 34%. They indicated some foreplay talk with very little descriptive talk during sex or sounds during sex. They indicated there sex life was poor to good.

The next group reported they rated their sexual satisfaction as good to very good most of the time. With 27%, this group about sex, share fantasy, past sexual experience, telling each other sexual stories about them self or their desires.

The final group which account for the smallest percentage only 16%, of the sample interviewed. They enjoyed pillow talk “Just about all the time”, well over 92% of the time sex take was a major part of their sexual play. What was surprising, they openly share fantasy about ever type of sexual experience. They talked about alternative sexual life styles, including, swingers, adult bookstores, threesomes, group sex, bi sex MMF, MM, FFM, FF. The list covered just about everything a person can do sexual.

89.9 % of these group indicated they have actually tried some of the fantasy more times. This include different sexual life styles indicated above. 82 % have more than 5 times actual experience and 74 more than 10 times. What was the real shocker well over 100 times 43% reported doing different form of sexual life styles. When the study was develop not one of the researcher thought there would be more than four or five percent above 100 times. What was equally shocking was that their overall satisfaction during sex with their partner or with someone else was very good to excellent.

Also the couple had had more pillow talk average having sex the more often in each of the age bracket. The men they are very satisfied over 97% where the first group only reported very satisfied only 11%. The number were only a couple percentage different for the women.

Higher the sexual satisfactions the more often couple masturbate in all age group. It is a sign of familiarity and ease when partners are able to comfortably masturbate in front of each other. It is also a very important way both men and women can taking responsibility for your own sexual needs without requiring your partner to satisfy you each and every time!

With men and women over 45, working women and men joint masturbation is an option when you both want sex but you're too tired for anything energetic. Mutual masturbation, is something many have tried but they prefer both stimulate each other, by taking and watching their partner. Masturbating together can also simply be a way of having fun or changing your sexual routine. The fact is, mutual masturbation can be a very intense experience and it's in no way second best after intercourse or oral sex. A good percentage of men indicated they enjoy a good hand job as much as oral sex. What indicated it is not how much sex that count but the quality of it. Masturbating sex can be especially liberating for men who experience performance anxiety, premature ejaculation or erectile difficulties. This might be whey many mature adult indulge in this quite often.

One area we didn’t cover is what does the man do with his ejaculation. Let face it the sperms has to go some where. For most it just go into the male partner majority of time. But some men like shooting is sperm onto his partner and many women like touching and licking it. There are no real studies that tells us what most couple do. So just do what feels good for you and your partner. That is what sex is all about.